My soul and your soul are forever tangled so what ever happen love our wife don't hurt them in physical and mentally just care them give our best to care them .
The bible said in Ephesians 5:25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; always love our wife's even if it is on the verge of death
The more you rush the more you mistake we do in our life because in our life we need to be careful and not rush because if we rush the more we do a wrong . Make a responsibility and stand up and do not escape for our responsibility ones we do a wrong we are responsible to resolve this problem we do in our life . Our responsibility are heavy but we need to stand up by what is done in our life . Fear is also normal but escape for our responsibility is not normal the people say you are a coward person.
If you truly love the person let them took to happiness, no matter to the culture you belong it's the barrier of your love to one person you have to fight for your love if you love her. you can adopt a child secretly to follow the culture. You can't happy if your love to your partner are fake , the relationship in fake love are doesn't consider you thought and plan in your life . Being true for your life you can't lie and no stress you receive.